As part of the 2024 Oregon Library Conference OYAN offered a pre-conference session on teen mental health featuring organizations in Oregon that support teens. Our guests included Hayley Shapiro, the Program Director of HOOTS (Helping Out Our Teens in Schools), a mobile crisis intervention organization in Eugene. Craig Leets, the Deputy Director of Youthline a nationwide peer to peer crisis and support line. Parker Preston and Robb Davis from Project Bravery a LGBTQIA+ mental health support organization in Lincoln County & Chris Bouneff, Executive Director of NAMI Oregon (National Alliance on Mental Illness).
The presentation offered numerous resources for assisting teens and how to be there for our teens in the library setting. Please check out the presenter’s websites above for resources. For the purposes of this blog post I am sharing what resonated to me, which is what I can more intentionally do in my day to day work with teens in my community. I invite others (whether you attended the session or not) to join the conversation by leaving a comment. Bonus, I bet you are already doing these things for teens at your library!
Strategies for Supporting Youth and Teens
Teens are under so much pressure! They are experiencing social, school, & home pressures. They are trying to find a purpose. They are also living in the world we live in which includes global events, late-stage capitalism, and climate crisis. While we cannot change this reality, we can listen to them and validate reality for them. Listening to teens is vital, it shows teens that there are safe adults. We can sit with them and listen even when it is hard and uncomfortable. Do not try and make the conversation about your own youth experience, I am guilty of this at times. Our job is not to have all the answers, it is to listen and model healthy behaviors.
Library staff can role model behavior that minimizes harm, have conversations about choices and risks– Why do people take risks? When you engage in risky behavior what might happen? Be genuine with teens, chat like real people. If a teen comes to you with a problem, like a relationship problem for example, be curious about their experience. Ask What makes you feel safe inside a relationship? Who do you have in your life that models a good relationship? Normalize and encourage help seeking behavior, help them seek out help from the organizations above. Teens are the experts of their own experiences. Use your relationships with your teens and when you notice off days, shifts in mood or when someone is not at their baseline check in with them, and take the time to listen to what is going on in their lives.
Destigmatize talking about mental health, normalize talking about mental health struggles. Talk about how you cope and what you do for self-care. Have teens identify a trusted adult in their life that they would call if they needed someone before they have a crisis. Having a trusted adult is a main factor in preventing teen suicide. Have them take out their phone and put that person’s contact info into their phone.
Further training ideas that were mentioned during the session on how to better support teen mental health included Be There Certificate free online mental health training, QPR training, motivational interview training.
Brianna Sowinski, Librarian I, North Plains Public Library – briannas@wccls.org